... no it's not. I hate not knowing what's going to happen, or not knowing what's going on in her head.

LONG post ahead, so please bear with me.. I need some input on this.

 Who is this "her", you ask? Let me tell you: I have been seeing this girl for about 3 weeks to a month, and all was going lovely. We were progressing pretty quickly through the motions (perhaps too quickly) and it was all cool. We would talk, eat, sleep together, and were apparently so into each other. Everything was swell as far could see my eye, so I ask her to be my girlfriend on friday the 14th, and she agrees to it. Then this week rolls around: we go to the same school so there are finals and final papers due all over. We hang out on tuesday, and have a small argument about something that should be insignificant at this point in the relationship. Afterward, everything seemed fine. Then comes Wednesday and she tells me that she has so much work to do and that she couldn't hang for the rest of the week due to her workload. Understandable I say to myself, and although it was a bit unsettling, i move on with my day. She's barely texting me, and she's barely contacting me in general (compared to texting me a whole lot even when she was doing work weeks previous), so i'm a bit paranoid, but nothing too serious. On thursday, she tells me to text her through facebook because she's uber stressed. That eased my tension a bit, and I ask her to have lunch with me so that she could calm down. Instead, we end up going to her room and I eat there. She's doing her work, and she's focused, but she's also not looking at me at all, which goes on for about an hour. After her room mates leave, she finally decides to talk to me and i help her relax. She then decides to tell me that she wants to break up due to the fact that we sorta jumped into it a bit. I agree, although that left me a little more unsettled. We take a three hour nap together, which is good. I leave, she gives me a goodbye kiss. I still feel a bit unsettled. Yesterday we barely even speak. I text her in the morning, i get all one word replies. We talk for a bit on AIM, then she signs off. I call her about 2 hours later, doesn't pick up.

This leaves me here: in a disturbed state of mind, not knowing what's going on, annoyed, confused, lonely. Anyone want to share their thoughts on this?

I'm 19, and I'm in college. I feel as if I am fairly attractive, and can dress pretty well. I'm fairly broadminded, quite the romantic, act a fool sometimes, but all in good fun. After this, there's still one problem -- I feel as if I don't attract enough female attention. Or I do, and get friend zoned. I've pondered this for quite some time, and I'm still inconclusive about it. How do I step beyond the friend zone? Is it in my language? or the way I look, or act? Please help...